Women's Day from the perspective of single women

For single women, true power is no longer about validation of their identity, instead it is about building an inner resilience. This International Women’s Day, we bring perspective of some Chandigarh based single women on how they are empowering their lives.
“True power lies not in external sources of validation, but in the ability to empower your own self,” says Gargi Arora, a therapist, and counsellor. She adds, “It's not just about reading literature or attending seminars, but about actively working on yourself, going through life, and learning from every experience. Nothing in life comes on a platter. The people we meet, the situations we face, the thoughts we have, and the opportunities that arise—they are all there for a reason. They carry lessons to be learned, and patterns to be broken.”
Empowerment comes from within. It’s about taking responsibility for our actions and reactions. She adds, “Every situation that comes our way can be an opportunity to ask ourselves: "What is my role in this?" This introspection is what forms the foundation of personal empowerment. I find strength in balancing my spiritual, work, and personal life. It’s about creating harmony in the everyday—embracing both the wine of joy and the divine grace that guides us. For me, empowerment is about learning from the tough times, encouraging others to find strength within themselves, and reminding them that only they can validate their own worth. It is not about a man or a woman...but not believing in the glory of our own soul is what the Vedanta calls atheism.
She says that there’s much to learn from navigating through survival mode, from the unpredictability of life’s twists and turns to the resilience required to move forward, “like the ever-tussling duo of Tom and Jerry. Words often fall short until we truly experience life in all its glory—because in the grand scheme of things, sadness and joy are but two sides of the same coin.”
Rachna Thakur, a teacher and special educator says, “For a single woman, empowerment is about embracing independence and making choices that align with her values and goals. It’s about breaking free from societal expectations and defining her own path—whether in her career, relationships, or personal growth. Empowerment is the strength to prioritize self-love, cultivate resilience, and trust her instincts, even when faced with challenges or judgment. It’s finding fulfillment in solitude yet also knowing when to seek community and support. Above all, empowerment for a single woman is owning her story, confidently walking through life on her own terms, and shaping her future without limitation.”